Halloween is Creeping Closer

The days are getting shorter. The weather is cooling down. The kids have been back in school for 4-6 weeks now. Halloween is Creeping Closer.

Soon you’ll be seeing ghosts, goblins, and witches showing up all over the neighborhood streets.

Are you ready for the invasion?

 

Preparing for Halloween

There’s a lot to do to prepare for Halloween. Over the years I’ve written many blog posts and even an eBook about how you can prepare for the holiday.

With costumes, decorations, trick-or-treating, and parties, you want your children and yourself to enjoy it as much as possible. But it’s also important to make sure everyone stays safe. That means having costumes that are safe to wear. It also means decorations are safe for trick-or-treaters coming to your front door or party guests in your home.

Below are the links to the blog posts and the eBook on Halloween. There are lots of tips and ideas to help you have a safe and fun holiday.

Posts on Safety.

Halloween Decorating Safety Tips

Halloween Safety Tips For Children’s Costumes

 

This is a series of posts I did a few years ago.

Countdown to Halloween Series Part 1

Countdown to Halloween Series Part 2

Countdown to Halloween Series Part 3

Countdown to Halloween Series Part 4

Countdown to Halloween Series Part 5

 

Here are some posts with quick tips from the eBook.

Halloween Tips From eBook – Tips 1-2

Halloween Tips From eBook – Tips 3-9

 

This eBook has all the tips from the above blog posts and lots more. The link below will take you to a page with the Table of Contents and links to purchase it on Amazon or Barnes and Noble.

How to Have a Fun, Safe, and Decluttered Halloween

 

Are you getting in the spirit of Halloween yet?

Have fun during this SPOOKY holiday!

Janice

 

 

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Taking Actions Gives You Energy

Taking actions gives you energy. Wow, that sounds backwards!

Whenever you want to start a decluttering project, do you find yourself doing the following:

  • You tell yourself that you are too tired and lack the energy to take any action to start decluttering?
  • You  don’t feel like you can do the job right (lack of confidence) so you don’t even start?
  • Are you spending a lot of time researching on how to declutter instead of taking actions?

If you’ve been waiting for enough energy, confidence, knowledge/skills, or inspiration before you start taking actions, then you probably have been waiting a long time. It’s time to let go of this backwards attitude that is weighing you down!

The truth is, the more actions you take, even itsy bitsy tiny ones, the more energy, confidence and knowledge you will gain.

Excuses, Excuses, Excuses

If you’re like me, it’s easy to believe the above excuses are true in any current moment. There are plenty of other excuses we use to stop ourselves from taking action.

If you truly want to accomplish something like decluttering the only way you will do it is to start taking actions right now. Not later when you’ve had a good night’s sleep, (if that is something that ever happens). Not later when you have the confidence or knowledge to do it. You learn by doing!

I’m inspired by what other’s do and and I know you are too. But if we don’t take actions to actually declutter some of our things, all that time researching and looking for knowledge and inspiration won’t do us any good.

 

Planning, Planning, Planning

Many times when we start to declutter or simplify our home and lives, we look around and work on a plan for what actions we should take.  We get out our notebook (paper or digital) and start writing down what we think should be done in each room.

Those piles of papers on the counter or table are glaring at us. How do we deal with them? We need a plan.

What about all the books, games, toys, etc. laying on the couches, chairs, and floor in the family room. Now we have to figure out a plan on what to keep and how to store those items.

Then there’s the pile of clothes on the floor next to the bed. Maybe we should plan to buy a nice basket that will fit the decor to put the dirty clothes in. Maybe we need to plan to buy nicer hangers so we can hang up the clothes that don’t need to be washed after one wearing.

As we look around and plan out the actions we should take, that overwhelm feeling is brought on by the sheer volume of actions that are needed. We become paralyzed. All this planning seems useless!

Then we throw our hands up in the air and give up. What’s the use? We don’t have the energy to tackle the mess. We don’t have the confidence that we are even capable of accomplishing our goal of decluttering it. All the knowledge and inspiration we got from other’s words and photos doesn’t help us because we are not like them.

 

“Just Do It”, Or Not

Back in 1988 the shoe company Nike came out with the slogan “Just Do It.”  That slogan became so popular that it was easy to apply to most things that required you to take actions.

However, the underlying message was that if you couldn’t “Just Do It”, there was something wrong with you.

That became a high standard that some of us struggled to reach.

When my children were young, I had a good friend that had children similar to the ages of mine. Her house was almost always clean whenever I would go over there.

  • The dishes are washed and put away.
  • The only toys out are the ones the kids were currently playing with.
  • No clutter laying around on furniture or the floor. Even magazines are stacked neatly on the coffee table.

I was frustrated and felt like a failure because my house never looked that clean and uncluttered. One day I asked her how she did it. Her answer was, “I don’t know, I just do it”.

Well, that didn’t help me much!

I had all kinds of excuses. The kids needed my attention. It was hard for me to stay focused on one thing at a time. I was taking actions but I was all over the board with them. Nothing ever seemed to get completely done.  Sometimes the rooms would be cleaned up but by the next day the clutter was back.

Yes, I knew then that I was different. I couldn’t figure out how to “just do it”.

It took years to figure out I was no less capable than anyone else when it comes to tackling my clutter. I just needed some tricks and tools to help me stay focused enough to let go of the clutter and keep the house organized and clean.

How to Take Actions

I had already started reading books on organizing before my friend told me she “just does it.”  After that I really stepped up my research by going to the library and even buying as many books on the subject as I could find. Back in the late 1980″s and early 1990″s there weren’t a lot of books out there. And the existence of the internet was years away.

But I kept looking and learning and experimenting (trail and error) until I found a few tools and techniques that worked for me.

One of the best tools I found was the handy kitchen timer.  I found if I set the timer for 5, 10, or even 15 minutes, I could stay focused for that long. It became a game to “beat the timer” and clean up one area. That game helped me take action, which in turn help me get some of the results I was looking for.  It also helped me learn not to be such a perfectionist. There was no way I was going to complete most of the clean up jobs in such a short time frame. And I learned that was okay.

The goal was to just start taking actions, make a little progress, move forward.  It was hard at first to accept I was not a failure if I couldn’t complete a job from start to finish in one setting.  That was my perfectionist talking, and she was wrong!

 

The Mind Plays Tricks on Us

When we look at a mess we want to clean up, that little voice in our heads starts talking back at us.  “There is no way you will get the mess cleaned up in 5, 10, or 30+ minutes. So why even start!”

We have a tendency to over estimate how long it will take to accomplish even a simple job.  The dinner dishes was always a huge struggle for me.  I would look at the sink full of dishes and just shake my head. In my mind it felt like it would take forever to get them done. I was tired. I knew I had more energy in the morning (I’m a morning person) so I would shrug my shoulders and leave it.

When I started using a timer to take action, I would tell myself that I had enough energy to do 5 minutes. Whatever dishes got done during those 5 minutes was good enough for that night.

Well, once I started doing that, I was amazed at how much I was able to get cleaned up in 5 minutes. My mind had been playing a trick on me saying it would take forever, but reality proved to be different.

The timer help me get the kids to pick up their toys. In their little minds it felt like a huge job. But somehow they managed to get most, if not all the toys picked up in that short of time.  When they were older they complained their homework would take all afternoon and evening, I would set a timer for 15, 20, or 30 minutes. They found out that most of the time they could complete the homework during that time frame.

 

Why a Timer Works For Me

I am one of those people who can’t seem to develop and keep routines, especially in some areas like cleaning, organizing, and decluttering. Even after years of practicing, I still struggle. I have not idea why. But I’ve learn to accept that this is just who I am. And that’s okay.

But that doesn’t mean I can or will accept living in a cluttered and unorganized home. I just need to figure out what tools and techniques work best for me.

As I said before, the timer has been one of the most consistent tools that has worked. I think it’s because it allows me to stay focused on one task/project for a finite amount of time. There is a start and there is a finish for me. That doesn’t mean I complete the task at hand. It only means that I took action on it. Sometimes I do complete the task. Sometimes I’m motivated enough to set the timer for another 5 or 10 minutes to continue working on that task.

I’m using the timer to write this blog post. Thirty minutes at a time helps me focus my brain on what I want to write.

I use the timer to file papers, or declutter a drawer or closet.

The timer is my personal coach that keeps encouraging me to “just get started”.

 

Don’t Beat Yourself Up

It took a long time but I learned not to beat myself up because I wasn’t the kind of person who could “Just Do It.”  I am who I am. It’s what I have to work with. Once I started finding tools and techniques that work for me, I started having success with decluttering and organizing. It took a lot of trail and error, and still does. However, I’ve learned that taking actions, no matter how small, will lead to more actions. It’s not always easy to remember but, I’m not a failure if I can’t do things the way others “just do it”.

There is nothing wrong with you so don’t beat yourself up for it. We are all unique and need to learn how to declutter and organize our own way. And that sometimes means doing a lot of trial and error actions before you find what works for you and what doesn’t. Plus it’s important to realize that sometimes a tool or technique that works now may not always work in the future for you. Our lives change over the years and so may the actions needed to keep our homes and lives decluttered, organized and simplified. It’s the end result that matters. How you get to that point and keep it there will be unique to you.

You can “Just Do It”, only when you are doing it your way.

 

To a lighter load along the way.

Janice Scissors

 

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Be Prepared for Holiday Shopping Days

The holiday shopping season is ramping up.  The Halloween decorations and costumes fill the store shelves. The Christmas items will soon follow.

I just heard that Amazon is now having a special “Holiday Shopping Day” sale this October.  This sale is called “Early Access Sale” day on October 11-12, 2022.  It will be two days of holiday deals. Other retailers are also getting in on the act by having early special deal days.

First there was Black Friday on the day after Thanksgiving. Then the sales started on Thanksgiving day. The last few years many of the Black Friday sales started a couple of weeks before the actual Black Friday day.

It get’s early and early each year!

And now there are these special “sale” days in October.

But before you bite at that lure of these special sales, make sure you are prepared ahead of time.

 

Planning Your Personal Shopping List

Do you know what you need to buy for your holiday decorating or party planning? If not, now is a good time to take inventory of what you already have.

  1. Inventory your decorations and/or holiday party items. If you took photos of your home during the holidays last year, they can give you a good idea of what you already have.
  2. List any items you know that need replacing.
  3. Check the prices ahead of time at your favorite online store.
  4. If an item on your list is not on sale or isn’t a fantastic sale price, you might want to hold off on buying it right now. It’s still early. Better sales may come along online or in stores.

 

Planning Your Gift Giving List

If you have a lot of gifts to buy, these early sales may be helpful. You can save some money, especially if the sales are good ones. It also helps you get a jump on the gift buying so you don’t end up rushing around last minute to get things. Plus it can help spread you gift buying budget over a longer period of time.

But before you even begin to purchase any gifts the first step you need to do is create your Master Gift List.

If you’ve been a follower of my blog for awhile you may have already created this list.  Now is the time to make your yearly update to it.

If you don’t have a Master Gift List, now is the time to make one before you do any shopping. This link to the Master Gift List will give you the details you need to create it.

 

Preparing for the Holidays

It’s so easy to get caught up in wanting and buying the latest and greatest Halloween or Christmas decoration. The professional marketers know exactly how to lure you in.  That’s why they are adding more “Special Holiday Shopping” days every year. They’re also trying to create that “urgency” to buy now!

If we’re not careful we can easily end up spending more money than we want to, plus have a lot more things that could end up as clutter in our homes.

Halloween is one day of the year and those decorations are usually up for only 3-4 weeks at the most. You still have to store them for the next 11 months. Christmas is only a little longer, usually from Thanksgiving to the first of the year.

Planning and preparing ahead of time will help you stay a step ahead of the marketers, which will put you in control.

The lists mentioned above are a great way to do this. On the Article and Blog Index page there are more helpful articles listed under the Holiday section.

 

I also have two eBooks available for sale on Amazon and Barnes and Noble with a lot of tips and ideas to help you plan and prepare for both Halloween and Christmas/Chanukah. You can still take advantage of the those “Holiday Shopping Days” because you will only be buying what you need or want according to your prepared lists.

How To Have A Fun, Safe, And Decluttered Halloween

Tips To Simplify and Organize Your Holidays

 

 

 

 

 

 

To a lighter load along the way.

Janice Scissors

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Clutter – Use It – Trash to Treasure

Many times our clutter consist of items we once used but are no longer using them. When this happens we really only have two logical choices to make. Either figure out a way to use the item again in our current life or lose it.

The Use It or Lose It idea has helped me make decisions on some of my stuff. These are things that have ended up in a closet, drawer, or storage room just taking up space and gathering dust.

Here are some questions I ask myself to help determine whether an item is worth keeping or letting it go.

  • Is this something I can use in my current life if it’s cleaned up, refurbished, or repurposed in some way?
  • If it doesn’t fit in my current life in some way, why not?
  • Is it time to let it go?

 

Re-doing My Office

A few years ago I had a small bulletin board hanging up in my home office. This room is on the main floor with open doorways to the front hall and the family room.

When we remodel the whole main floor with new wood flooring and painting, I decided to get new office furniture. The old stuff was inexpensive furniture from the discount stores and had seen better days. . It was not going to look good with the beautiful wood floors.

So I got rid of most of the furniture and bought a new desk and two bookshelves from Wayfair. That old bulletin board went downstairs to the storage room.

 

Refurbishing the Old Bulletin Board

 

Recently I decided I wanted to put a bulletin board up on the wall above one of the bookshelves. But there was no way that old one was going to go back up there. At least not in it’s current condition. So I did a little research to see how to refurbish a bulletin board with paint.

I enjoy painting things but rarely do it. Even though I’m not highly skilled in it, I decided to paint the bulletin board plus add a little stenciling. If it didn’t work out, I could either donate the board or trash it.

I bought some acrylic craft paint at Walmart and some seashell theme stencils online.  I decided to keep it simple by using only two colors. One for the board and another for the frame and stencils.

 

First I taped off the frame. The cork board ended up taking 3 coats of the acrylic craft paint to get it to look good. Next time I will use some kind of primer first.

 

When the cork board was dry I painted the frame white. Then did the stencils.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think it turned out pretty good. It’s cute, a little whimsical, and looks a lot better than before. I took a piece of clutter in my storage room and made it a useful item for my office.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Different Way to Look At Our Clutter

We don’t have to always look at our clutter from the standpoint that it has to be let go. It may have outlived it’s usefulness in it’s current state but we can repurpose it to a useful item in our current life.

If we don’t think we can repurpose/reuse it in some way it’s probably best to let it go. It just might become a trash to treasure item for someone else.

 

To a lighter load along the way.

Janice

If you’re on Facebook be sure to check out my groups on decluttering.

Clutter-Use It or Lose It

Controlling Paper Clutter Support Group

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Decluttering My Beauty Routines and Products

For the past couple of years I’ve been decluttering my beauty and body products plus simplifying my routines. The pandemic has actually helped me in some ways to reduce my inventory of those kinds of products.

Since I didn’t go out to many places this past year, I didn’t use a lot of my make-up. Nor did I purchase many new items.  As a result, I have a lot of old and/or unused make-up that is probably bad. It’s time to let go of these items.

I use to buy a large majority of my make-up and other toiletries from my Avon representative. She left the catalogs for me every two weeks for years. When she retired in December 2019, I decided it was time to change my shopping habits.

Reducing the clutter and simplifying routines also meant I had to reduce what came into the house. I had to learn to not buy into the advertising about all the “miracle” products that would keep me looking 20 years younger. I also had to learn that I don’t need to have five or six different scented shower gels and lotions all at one time.

Reducing Inventory

Even before the pandemic and my Avon rep retiring, I was already on a “reducing inventory” plan.

It started in the summer of 2019. We remodeled our master bathroom. The bathroom isn’t large but it did have a small closet in it.

The remodel consisted of redoing the shower stall, new vanity, new toilet, and new floor. It also consisted of removing the popcorn ceiling and the taking out the soffit over the shower stall. That made the room look and feel larger. We kept the closet because there was only room for a small vanity.

Before the remodeling started, I had to pack up all the stuff in the closet and vanity.  Once I gathered all those lotions, shower gels, shampoos, etc. into a large box, it was easy to see I had way too much stuff. I then knew I had to reduce my inventory.

I decided I would use up what I had before I could buy/replace any new products.

My closet is now mostly decluttered. After using up most of the products I like, it’s been easy to see the ones I didn’t use. Most of what is left I still use.

However, after taking this photo I realize I still have some things I originally kept but haven’t used in the last two years. Time to doing some decluttering.

Stocking Up Too Much

When I find a product I like it’s so tempting to stock up when it’s on sale.  Why pay full price when I know I’ll use it. But if I’m not careful, I’ll end up with way too many items on cluttered shelves.

I like using different scented shower gels and lotions. Avon had great deals on these kinds of products in every catalog. As a result I ended up stocking up on too many.

I also bought several different ones from Bath and Body Works, especially when they had their sales of buy 3 get 3 free.

Great deals but how many different scents/products did I really need?

Changing my buying habits was crucial if I wanted to keep my new bathroom decluttered. I was lucking for the three things that helped me break the buying habit.

  • Remodeling the bathroom
  • Avon rep retiring therefore eliminating the catalog temptations.
  • The pandemic which didn’t allow me to go to the store to sample the scents from their sample bottles.

Letting Go Of Unused Products

Now my inventory is getting low. So it’s getting time to shop again. Only this time I plan to be careful about what I buy and how much. I have to remind myself that I don’t have to stock up on something just because it’s on sale. Maybe one extra bottle on the shelf, but not three or four or more.

As I mentioned above, after taking the photo I noticed there are some items that are not being used. I have learned over the years that a simple photo can help us see a lot more than our eyes alone can see. It’s a great tool to help with decluttering.

Anyway, it’s time to let go of those unused products. Here are a few ways to get rid of them without too much guilt.

  • Shower gels, bubble bath, or shampoos that are not liked can be used to clean toilets. Flylady taught me years ago that any kind of soap will clean. Plus these smell much better than the chemical cleaners.
  • Unopened lotion and other products can be given away to friends or homeless shelters. Just make sure they are not too old and expired.
  • Opened or too old of products need to be trashed.

 

Focusing on the Future

Although I’m still in the process of learning to keep the bathroom toiletries minimalized, I’m finding that I don’t miss having so many choices. I have my few favorites and they are easy to find on the decluttered shelves.

If I want to try a new scent and/or kind of lotion, I will allow myself to give it a try. It’s great if I like it but if I don’t, I need to let it go as soon as possible. I will not allow myself to feel guilty for wasting money.

Because I didn’t waste money. I spent the money on an experience (not just a product) that didn’t work out. Oh well.

Life is too short to beat ourselves up over every little “mistake” we may make. Learn from it and move on.

In other words, let go of the disliked product and remember not to buy it again.

 

To a lighter load along the way.

Janice Scissors

 

 

 

 

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